Yes; Kalinda's sexuality is constantly calculated. And that doesn't mean it's not real or she's not enjoying it, but she is always weighing it and how it works. The scene with sophia is actually one of the most open ones, to me, which is why I kind of love that she's still so clothed: they're comfortable with each other and it's not a new thing, but even relaxed she's still calling the shots in one way or another.

I realized this morning that I can't remember how much we see of Kalinda in bed with Nick. I've apparently blocked that out.